James Dickey on October 29th, 2008

Biographies, autobiographies, magazine and newspaper features.

Millions of words have been printed about how people got their start in their field, whether that is business, politics, education, the arts or entertainment. It’s an endlessly fascinating subject, in part because there are so many different paths people can take.

Please share your story - any one of your stories. How did you get your start in your career, your hobby, your relationship, your passion? Who and what were the influences in your life? Was your path intentional or influenced heavily by chance? Did pre-existing contacts play a role, or did all the people who impacted you come into your life along the way?

To share your story, simply add it as a comment below. Be as complete or cryptic as you like. Register or don’t.

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  1. No profanity. I’ll edit out any you post, so save us both the time and wasted effort.
  2. No plagiarism. If you’re quoting something, give a clear citation/attribution. Better yet, just stick with your personal story, or those of your close friends or family.

I’ll review your comment to make sure it follows the rules, then add tags and assign it to a category as a post. Your story/stories will become a meaningful part of the site.

Don’t limit yourself to just business posts. How did you end up at the school you attended? How did you and your spouse get your start? How did your company start? It’s all fascinating, and I’d love to help you share the story. Please let me.

I look forward to learning about how you got your start!

James Dickey

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James Dickey on March 23rd, 2009

My parent’s took me to see a whistlestop campaign tour by presidential candidate Richard Nixon in 1968. After that, I received a class assignment to bring Nixon literature to class.

20 years later I was working in the White House for President Reagan.

Now… the big question is: How does one reinvent oneself? I’m looking to make a transition to other career paths.

Mike’s America

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James Dickey on March 14th, 2009

James was kind enough to invite me here to share “how I got my start”. Ironically another magazine (a hard copy one wanted a similar story with more of a pre-biography) attached to it. I decided to combine the two an this is what I wrote. Thank so much James. Hope your readers enjoy. Sincerely, Rick London, Londons Times Cartoons
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How The Internet’s #1 Ranked Offbeat Cartoonist, Rick London, Founder of Londons Times Cartoons Got His Start
by Rick London

I like to think, and often tell people, “My life began at forty-three, but sadly it began at birth, in a small Mississippi rural community called “Hattiesburg”. I was born in the middle of the civil rights movement, and, when it reached its peak, I was just becoming a teenager. In many ways it was peaceful and quiet. On some days, I was afraid to leave my home. I was/am Jewish. The grand
wizard of the KKK lived two blocks from me. His son had a crush on my older sister (aged four).

Neither of the parents were too wild about this situation.

By the time I reached my late teens, I was forced (thankfully) to learn the martial arts (karate). In my young adulthood, I mastered it. This kept most of the nuts at bay.

My family, like most, were the epitome of “Midnight In The Garden Of Good And Evil”; not Ozzie and Harriett or Little House On The Prairie Dysfunction and struggle ran rampant in our upper-middle-class (considered wealthy) household. It was a silent war-zone. Feelings, thoughts etc. were not important. Only good grades and later medical school, law school, or running the family business.

So I became a cartoonist (in 1997), writer, and E-entrepreneur at age forty-three, and a college student at forty-five, and shoe designer at age fifty-three in 2008.

Though there was a university back home in Mississippi, the culture was slim pickings. I began jogging before the jogging craze. I opened one of the first health food stores in the region. I knew I was “different” but I didn’t know the whole story until around 1975.

I remember being at my maternal grandmother’s home, Ruth London. The caller was a man, an author named Steven Birmingham. He had written a best-seller called “Our Crowd”, and was now researching for his next book titled “The Grandees”, about Sephardic (Spanish) Jews in America.

My maternal family would be featured a great deal as they were one of the first in North America and we had some famous names in the lineage such as poetess Emma Lazarus, who penned The Next Colossus. The last verse of it appears on the base of the Statue Of Liberty “Give us your tired, your hungry, huddled masses” etc. Her best friend and mentor was Ralph Waldo Emerson. Another notable in the direct family line was Supreme Court Judge Benjamin Cardozo.

I discovered my maternal family owns a family museum, Gomez Mill House (gomez.org) which my great great, etc. grandfather Luis Gomez built in 1700.

As time went by I began writing essays and creating cartoons with my team. I can draw but not well enough for the specs I want in Londons Times Cartoons (www.LondonsTimes.us). I wanted the top offbeat cartoon on the Internet and, 7 years later it was, and still is Google’s number one ranked offbeat cartoon. I didn’t realize that many cartoons are group efforts, until I spoke with several top-name cartoonists. I was too naive to know they might hang up on me. Oddly, the bigger the names, the more generous and open.

Charles Schulz, founder of “Peanuts” was one of the most helpful. He advised me that many cartoons are team efforts, and if I had enough concepts and text, I could recruit artists on spec if they believed in my project. I began calling. Other helpful cartoonists included Leigh Rubin (spoke almost every day), founder of Creator’s Syndicate “Rubes”. Others included Jon McPherson (Close To Home), and Dave Overly (Speed Bump). All were instrumental in my start.

I faced challenges. I had a dysfunctional vagus nerve, and nobody knew what that was at the time.

So I was treated many years for major depression (it can often mimic the symptoms of thyroid problems). It was not until 1998 that I diagnosed it properly (based on an article I read in New Yorker). The Vagus Nerve Stimulator (an implant that goes directly below the skin at the vagus nerve, longest nerve in the body, was still in clinical trials, but testimonials looked promising. No amount of Prozac, Paxil, etc etc. put a dent in it. Of course not. It was not depression.

I had moved back to Mississippi after living and working in Washington, D.C., New York City, and L.A, to care for my ailing mother with cancer.

I was an embarrassment to my family as it was difficult for me to hold down even the most simple of jobs. I ended up living in an abandoned steel warehouse in the woods owned by a social worker/friend. She provided electricity, a phone line, and sink. No hot water, no bed, no air conditioning. I bathed with cold sink water for a year. I cared for my rescue dog “Thor” who was my best friend. (I didn’t have many left).

I knew I was not going to stay in Mississippi but I didn’t know where I was going to go. I could feel feel my own health declining due to (what turned out to be many years of misdiagnoses; I did not have depression), and bad living conditions.

I researched places. I had friends, and formerly had family in a unique town called Hot Springs, Arkansas. But a few years later, I suffered a major heart attack and somehow survived. I was given heart medicines to take the rest of my life. The side effects were so horrible I stopped them after three months, but didn’t tell the doctor I had started learning about treating it with herbal tinctures, healthier diet, and exercise (I had been a marathon runner in my late 20’s, etc.). All my vital signs, knock on wood, have stayed normal for 8 years.

However, in 1995, I decided to start dating again, and settled with a girlfriend. She advised me I had the worst case of sleep apnea she’d ever experienced. I did sleep studies, but didn’t sleep. The clinic said I did, and tried to sell me on the C-PAP mask. I put it on. It was excruciating. I told the ENT surgeon who suggested I try another size. I did. Same thing. Something was fishy. I had not slept and I knew it.

All this time I was writing magazine articles, creating cartoons, and now had 5 e-stores with over 150,000 cartoon licensed goods.

The media was calling me. I had become the first offbeat cartoonist to go green (with tees) at my Rick London Organics store (RickLondonOrganics.info), first to have series of offbeat stamps approved by the U.S. Post Office (at my special edition store RickLondonFunnyGifts.info), first to create a cartoon gourmet coffee gift basket, my own private label with cartoon mugs and matching coasters at my superstore (LTSuperstore.com), had the only offbeat cartoon to remain #1 on Google for three years going on four (including my superstore), and now I have ventured into non-cartoon projects such as creating “the world’s first famous love quotation shoes” (Shoes That Amuse). USA Today did a story on them last weekend. We’ve even added a President Obama shoe, including a famous love quote of his. U.S Keds manufactures them for me, and Zazzle prints and ships them. All my stores ship worldwide.

I had to stop school due to illness and that was upsetting. It affected me negatively, as did when my dog “Thor” died last year at age 22. He lived that long vet-free because I discovered the b.a.r.f. raw foods diet for dogs. Much on the Internet about it.

We have fans from ditch diggers to movie stars. Recently, actress Mariel Hemingway commissioned me to create her organic goods for her new online store. I am currently working
on those and they will be out in May. The AP Wire is planning a big story on it, and it should go worldwide.

So for someone who drifted around half his adult life, I can say there has to be a God in the universe watching out for me. If life were fair, I would not be here typing this. I should not be here
by any stretch of the imagination. There is a wonderful woman in my life and we love each other dearly. She is a school teacher, a very, very good and caring one (the type you remember) as was my own mother. Freud says “We seek our moms”. Maybe he was onto something. I know I was “Jung And Restless” and ready to settle down.

I am active mostly in animal and animal causes. I get asked by about 100 or more charities each month for signed cartoons for their auctions. I’m told they bring up to $200 each.

On March 22, 2009, Londons Times Cartoons celebrates eleven years. I started with $300, a beat up used clone IBM 386, a book called “Internet For Dummies” a phone line and dial-up Internet, the clothes on my back (no car) and my stray named “Thor”.

I now live in a beautiful part of Hot Springs, and my studio window looks out over a dead volcano that spews thermal water constantly. Millions of tourists visit annually to bathe in and drink the healing waters.

I am a very, very lucky man. I am not Bill Gates, but I am comfortable, and I do love very much what I am doing.

And I truly believe that we are all given a talent of some sort. We can choose to follow that path or deny it. I denied mine for many years. That is a living hell. A healthy choice is to explore it, ask questions, get to work, and be persistent no matter what challenge or obstacle the day faces. You WILL succeed, if you do that. That is a promise.

Rick London
LondonsTimes.us

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James Dickey on February 25th, 2009

I had a string of service industry jobs through my twenties, and then a recession hit. I was out of a job and collecting employment insurance. Just as my insurance was running out, I found one of the government retraining programs in the back of one of those want-ad broadsheets you can find everywhere.

I took it to my insurance guy during one of my yellow-card visits and he signed me up. They continued to give me money, and I went every day to a training centre to be taught how to be a cubicle-dweller. Basic technical troubleshooting for Unix systems, suitable for level 1 telephone support. A real dead-end job, but they guaranteed placement (at their own tele-support company, naturally.) It was a paying job, at least, and required me messing around with computers all day, which is something I did (and wanted to do) anyway.

Since I already had a deep history with tech and computers, I did pretty well. At the end of my training I fax-bombed my resume out to every place that was in the phone book, and got three bites. Two were obvious washes, but the third was an agency looking for a support person at a software company in another city. I took a bus out to the company, low-balled myself, and was hired that week.

I’m still at the same company, except now I’m a senior developer.

-Anonymous

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James Dickey on February 19th, 2009

I’ll start with Chapter 5: Donna Makes the Transition from Admin Assistant to Technical Writer

Way back… 1990-something, a friend told me I should be a technical writer. I didn’t believe her, but she was absolutely convinced I could do it. (We met when I was the editor of several organizational newsletters).

My friend interviewed for a position that ended up not being what she wanted, but she thought it might be a good fit for me. I submitted my resume, had an interview and the rest as they say, is history.

Out of the experience I gained a mentor and learned how to write and build Help for software applications.

I’ve been going strong ever since and ended up enjoying some of the spotlight as one of the top 10 Help authors in the Fort Worth/Dallas area. It is truly my passion.

With the dot com bust, I learned you can sell software without Help, so I have since transitioned into a Web Content Manager and absolutely love the opportunity to use my Web skills that up until now had only been used on a personal level.

I am forever grateful to my mentor for recognizing my talent and taking the risk of hiring and training me. I have tried to repay the favor along the way when I have met other women who wanted to change careers.

Donna Hornsby
itsallaboutdonna.com

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James Dickey on February 16th, 2009

I got my start in business in 1988. I was sitting at my desk in a tech company and it dawned on me that if I stayed inside at that cubicle one more day, I was going to get a gun and shoot myself. For real.

I remember like it was yesterday. I got up, went to my boss and said, “I’m going home”.

He asked if I was sick. I said “yes, of this job.” I got my stuff, left the building, and never came back.

It was a brilliant summer’s day in Upstate New York, in June. I felt so alive at that moment I wish I could have bottled it. I had instantly become a free man.

I went on to build and sell a tech business of my own. I’m on my second one now and still feel the same way. I call the shots in my life. That’s just the way its got to be for me.

Scott Grimshaw
tangidyne.com

Editor’s note: Scott’s company, Tangidyne, “designs and manufactures quartz film thickness sensors”. He tells a considerably more detailed version of his business journey on the About Us page on his web site at http://tangidyne.com/about_us.html

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James Dickey on February 15th, 2009

As for my current career, I had been working in a garment factory for way too long and was so desperate to leave that I was almost about to stand on the street corner and hand out resumes to passersby. During this time I had a filling come out of a tooth.

Went to the dentist and as he was prepping the tooth for a crown he offered me a job. A few weeks later I was training on the job to be a dental assistant. I left that office year before last because I needed health insurance. I wasn’t at the new office long before the whole front staff walked out and left them without anyone up front. The office manager pulled me up there and I’ve been a patient coordinator ever since.

What I really love doing is artwork. In my spare time painting landscapes in acrylic and, my first love, drawing cartoons. It has always been a dream of mine to derive a living from my cartoons but so far that’s not the case. But I do receive a good deal of enjoyment from them anyway. (and so do others it seems).

M.L. Webb

Editor’s Note:
It’s unfortunate M.L. isn’t doing something she’s passionate about, but it’s good that she’s in a better career than she was. One interesting thing to me is how the opportunities presented themselves, she just needed to be open and available.

I have to wonder what her plan is to get to where her cartoons can be her sole source of income. She didn’t leave a web site address, so I have to assume she doesn’t have that step done yet.

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James Dickey on February 8th, 2009

In my early thirties I began to turn yellow and by the time I was in my fifties, I was bronzed orange all year round (even in the Montana wintertime with lots of overcast days). I also developed celiac symptoms (severe gluten intolerance) and was about 20-30 pounds overweight.

My first husband developed some horrible symptoms possibly from Agent Orange exposure, and I nursed him at home, all the way through hospice care until he passed on.

So learning about deadly symptoms in my own body and in my husband’s, I began to focus on getting healthy.

It took about 16 months before my skin was white again and my figure was slender. It takes ongoing cleansing of liver and blood and all parts of my body to keep being healthy…and now I have a new husband with dire health needs.

So I continue to learn and do, cleanse and heal, and grow stronger and younger looking by the week. Just today a friend told me I’m looking younger and younger.

My second husband is bipolar and has mistreated his body all 6 decades of his life. He has actually changed his bipolar mind.

I’m a networker at heart and - given all these experiences - have much to share. What better place than online to the wide world!?

So I maintain a blog called Enjoying Your Health, meant for all people, but especially bipolar folks of all ages.

I got my start through difficult experiences that touched me significantly and directly, but I hope as a result that I’ll be able to help many others who may be going through the same thing.

Dianne Hansen

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James Dickey on January 28th, 2009

I started in college doing many different odd jobs to pay for tuition and extra curricular activities. :)

I used the internet to find jobs as well as training for what I do today.

What I stumbled upon online and eventually learned was that Wedding Photography is my passion. I’m looking to be my own boss and pursue Wedding Photography full time.

Craigslist found me my first couple paying jobs and eventually this sporadic hobby grew into something I do more often and am working to build into a career.

So, some online research and Craigslist was how I got my start.

Chris
The Michigan Wedding Photographer

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James Dickey on January 20th, 2009

I am a web/graphic designer who was extremely unhappy in the corporate world, as it squandered all my creativity and turned what I used to love into what felt like a chore. Then one day it came to me, that I was meant to start something on my own and re-gain what it felt like to be a creative individual. I feel like my life started the day I left the corporate world and started on my own adventure.

Here is the story about my start, also posted at http://www.ribbonsofred.com/ourstory.htm

My grandma was a kind-hearted woman, and a beautiful writer who found the silver lining in everything. She gave money when she didn’t have money to give; she welcomed strangers into her home that didn’t have homes of their own; and played sports with her grandchildren in the backyard at 70 years of age! Her life was an inspiration to so many people, including myself.

In June 2006, my grandma was diagnosed with breast cancer, but none of us were worried. After all, she had a knack for giving us hospital scares, and almost always around the holidays — so much so, that it became a running joke in our family.

Upon surgery, it was discovered that my grandma had been living on only one kidney for some time. These revelations worried me, but my grandma was not worried. She just concentrated on the positives and spoke of all the people she would help when she was able to leave the hospital.

In the fall, my grandma was admitted to an assisted living nursing home. In a surgical attempt to save her inactive kidney, the healthy one was damaged. Her body began to wilt away little by little, but it didn’t dampen her spirit. She had big plans when she got well, and she told us all about them.As winter fell upon us, my grandma became the weakest one in the nursing home. The women who helped everyone was now being helped by a 24 hour nursing staff.

But weak or not, she spoke to us confidently from her hospital bed. She talked about the day she would return home, attend family gatherings, eat her son-in-laws famous BBQ, and show me how to play tennis. The truth was, she was dying. In the summer of 2007, I was told to say my goodbyes. My grandma knew now that it was the end.

She didn’t need to be held. She didn’t cry or need to be told it would be okay. Instead, she held me while I cried and told ME it would be okay. She spoke of her love for me in a way I’d never heard before.

Here was a woman who desperately wanted to leave the hospital to help others. And little did she know, she didn’t have to leave her hospital bed at all to help. She was helping ME, in her weakest state, come to terms with saying goodbye. That amazed me. In society, the healthy comfort the sick, but not for Dorothy — she wanted to help me. All she had left were her words and her heart, and she used them up until the very end. That talk was our last one together.

A few months after her funeral, I came across a small book she had written. As I paged through it, I came across a song she used to sing around her house when I was little. The song spoke of inspiration and devoting yourself to helping others. The title of the song was called, ‘Ribbons of Red’.

Renee Rist
Ribbons of Red
http://ribbonsofred.com

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